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Date Posted: 18:39:23 07/19/09 Sun
Author: Tim
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: Sam (Admin) 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 15:22:18 07/19/09 Sun

Sam, are you really in some type of administrative posistion here because you sound like you are on the defensive for what is the actual cause of our real life traumatic experiences. I have a lot of respect for Difflurker, he's put up with some critisism from me but still has tried to help me see what appears to be the inevitable truth. I have a 12 and 8 year old son here that wonders where their real mother has gone, wheres the compassion that was there from the mom pretending to not have same-sex attractions. If this has not happened to you or you are an atheist, which is none of my business, then you have no idea about the negativity of dealing with these situations. It's like the kids call each other gay at school for the fun of it not knowing all the facts of what it means to be gay and what takes place in gay relationships. My wife raised my kids up in church, so therefore the bible should be what their beliefs are based on which would read that homosexuality is wrong and therefore same-sex attraction should be controlled by the human being. Now from what I hear people say they have no control, but me being the straight spouse wants to believe that this is a choice only because I don't experience a same-sex sexual attraction. I know scientifically there is little known about the causes of homosexuality, but I would say that a persons background and the environment could possibly play a big part in justifying for their sexuality. I feel that a belief in God would convict persons who are consumed by sinful natures. There are a lot of people that commit crimes who feel as if their actions are justified for some reason or another. I feel that once homosexuality is accepted by religion and the rest of the world, our days here on earth will be coming to a close. This situation made me feel like I could become a vigilante and I wouldn't be able to control it, but I think of the unknown consequences and I gain control of my thoughts because thats not the right thing to do. Thats called self-control, something we should all be able to do in this life instead of the rash decisions that pull so many innocent by-standards into what is happening to them. I respect people like Difflurker because if he is honest he has not brought widespread harm in discovering his own sexuality. My wifes cousin is the same way, I talk to him with the same respect that I would any other human being because now that I am an adult, I've learned that there is little evidence of what the causes of homosexuality could be.

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