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Date Posted: 00:54:49 07/23/09 Thu
Author: Tim{apologies to Diff}
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: Tim 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 03:59:53 07/19/09 Sun

Difflurker, just want you to know that I am respectful enough to apologize to you for any harsh or biblical comments that have offended you. I think that I am an understanding and good hearted person most of the time towards others no matter what orintation, race, religion, etc. I have respect for you trying to offer your advice to those of us seeking it. I know you are putting your self esteem at risk here being that we are all traumatized by homosexuals that tried living a normal life as long as they could. I watched movie called FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO. If you haven't seen I would highly recommend. Believe it or not , my good friend from focus on the family recommended it to me. It clearly shows why you have the feelings you do about focus on the family. I think you would also like my friend because he has compassion and understanding for all human beings, gay or straight. He would probably be worth around 150.00 an hour on the streets. This movie justifies being homosexual in biblical standards, believe it or not. We all can't make quick changes of judgement and I think you can clearly see that the straight spouse seems to be more traumatized and confused than the homosexual spouse. I just can't condone the bad behavior that went along with it because it seemed as though it would be impossible for a great trustworthy personality to change as drastically as some do. 21 years of love, devotion and cutting umbilical cords and sharing same residence with family hurts like HELL when you sit back and watch it all go down the drain and you're back at square one trying to find your identity all over again. I feel that I was not a great father and husband but rather better than average, I could have used some tweeking. But by no means did I or will I ever feel that I deserved the disrespect that went into the coming out at mid life process. If not for kids i feel that I could have possibly killed this girl, if I were to lose my wife anyway, I would have had nothing else to live for literally. I think my wife was a great person as a straight spouse and this has nearly killed me anyway. Just want you to know if you are the person that you say you are then I got a lot of respect for you in trying to give these SS someone to vent to. God bless you for your efforts Diff. I'm sorry if you took me as only trying to condemn homosexuality. I just wish wife would have went about her affairs more maturely, honest and respectful of behavior. I guess any affair could have these same charachteristics in it, but when everything is just so uncharachteristic of a spouse, it condemns whatever behavior is being exhibited, and in our case it happens to be homosexual. Thanks for trying to give me answers, I'm sure a lesbian couldn't have done much better being that this is the other person that we are trying to diagose here. Thanks

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Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years?? -- difflurker, 14:08:27 07/28/09 Tue
- Re:To Diff -- TT (Dear Difflurker:), 00:24:28 07/29/09 Wed

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