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Date Posted: 05:10:31 10/23/09 Fri
Author: Linda
Subject: Re: I'm not sure.
In reply to: J 's message, "I'm not sure." on 22:37:03 10/22/09 Thu

If he is looking at gay porn, he is gay.(that is my take) You have every right to be upset and should be upset.

My husband used all the same excuses--I'm bisexual, I only watch, I only get head not give it It turned out to be lies. There was MUCH more going on.

I am so sorry that this has happened to you.

There may be more going on that you don't even know about yet.

I know you want to believe him, I wanted to believe my husband too-- but they can be very devious in covering up their sexuality.

By the way, my husband was a high school sweetheart too. From reading this forum quite a bit in the past year, this seems to be a trend--

I hope I don't upset you more. I just don't want another women to waste any more time on someone whos sexual interest is elsewhere.

You can come out of this and still be friends if that is what you would like. But, it will take hard work, and understanding. He probably loves you. I wouldn't doubt that, but he sounds gay to me.

Take care of yourself first and whatever you do don't waste time with being married to a gay man. I didn't find out for 15 years-- those years are gone and I can't get them back.

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  • Re: I'm not sure. -- p, 14:24:06 10/23/09 Fri
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