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Date Posted: 21:57:00 11/03/09 Tue
Author: Tim (hurt yet still in love)
Subject: I am in love with my wife and don't want to lose her

My wife of 13 years seems really close to pulling the trigger on leaving me for her lesbian lover. We have an amazing life with three wonderful, innocent young children and while I can appreciate that she recently found out that being with a woman is pretty exciting (I happen to agree), I have a hard time with the whole "I need to start thinking about myself" concept. Has it really been that miserable with us? Is the unconditional love of four people not enough? I have given her a deadline of Thanksgiving to let us know if she in or out for good and will keep you guys posted. I want to keep her and if she she stays (she is very scared of telling her parents, her friends and of the world's reaction), i would not take it for granted that she left a part of her behind. It just seems that whatever she would be gaining from this new relationship, she would be leaving a ton more behind - but maybe it is just us that get left behind that feel that way. Anyway, lots of emotions and i don't want to bore you guys. Thanks for listening.

Tim in Atlanta

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