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Date Posted: 22:53:45 12/10/07 Mon
Author: Trill
Subject: Re: telling children
In reply to: B 's message, "telling children" on 11:42:35 12/10/07 Mon

Liz
So sorry you are going through this.. boy do I understand how that feels. Please know that you are not alone and that there are many of us who have gone through very similar things.
There is no reason you two need to decide this minuet what to do... or that you have to tell your kids right now. Give yourself some time to work through this.
Some couples are able to work through the issues that they faced when one spouse comes out or is outed.
I am not condoning his behavior in any way, and I do know how devastating it is to learn that your husband cheated on you. Mine did. It was horrible to say the least!! We very nearly divorced. But we got some good advice from someone in the same boat... who told us to take our time and let our emotions settle down before making any life altering decisions. Sound advice no matter what the outcome.
If you want you can email me.. I know right now you must be reeling.
I am still married, and its been over 7 years since I found out. Things do get better... our relationship is better now than it was before.. I think that has to do with all the work and effort we went through to work through the issues. If we did not have the love for one another I doubt we would still be married.. but when all was said and done we had a lot going for us, and both had the same desire to stay together.
hugs
trill

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Replies:

  • Re: telling children -- Cherrie, 00:46:27 12/13/07 Thu
  • What makes a family -- TT, 11:27:16 12/17/07 Mon
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