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Date Posted: 19:29:42 07/13/09 Mon
Author: Tim (One year and 9 months into it)
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: Maxpain 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 10:20:21 07/13/09 Mon

Max, I know where you're coming from. It's like a mystery that we may never have answers for. Is barb the soft butch type, very athletic. I think the butch in my life has got to be sociopath because of all the deception in this with a stand in fiancee and all, bigger vehicle to haul wife and kids and the sea-doo to entertain when we went out in ski boat. With mine there was nothing I could say or do to change anything. I don't think there was any obvious guilt or compassion for me whatsoever. When we had sex she acted like it was hurting her and that she had became very fragile. Sex was becoming non-existent because the parasite was in her head full time. Night gown changed to shorts and a t-shirt,no tounge when kissing and she didn't want me ejaculating in her anymore. Found ways or ailments to avoid sexual encounter. They say the bond between 2 females is incredible as far as the emotional attachment. My wife is apparantly still in denial and the biggest self-centered peice of shit iv'e ever seen. No communication for about 9 months now, but was also very little in my search as to what was going on.I felt like I had a great wife and mother of our children but I think the wrong influence creeped into her life. How old is your wife and barb,say they've been friends 25 years. How long your marriage. Don't leave the house!!!!!! Unless you have some type of legal documents making it o.k. My lawyer is trying to make me feel like I'm fareing well by paying 700.00 month child support with no alimony and my full retirement. I may settle for little less than half of equity in house just to try to move forward. This is hardest thing in my life, I know how you feel, emotions are hell. It is hard but don't let it get the best of you, no domestic charges then her lawyer may try to screw you big time. I've been with my wife for 21 years since she was 16, now she is 38 years old and I do not understand. Most of what I saw was excessive time together, excessive communication, possessiveness, and some type of controlling nature that definetly came in to cause trouble. God isn't our enemy Max, I feel like he has kept me sane through all of it and blessed me in many ways. The devil is running wild out there and preying on good people we thought we could trust. Our worlds revolved around our secure relationships and now our worlds been turned upside down. Eventually yours and mine may come out of this, but from what I hear probably way too late. I don't feel like my wife ever cheated before and I don't think she is a lesbian, but she is defenitely in a lesbian relationship that will have to run its course and hopefully end sooner than later for the sake of the kids. I don't know that she would ever be the same again. Everyone in family is confused about her strange behaviour. I have learn a lot about a lot of things while seperated, maybe they can help in the future but I need to count her as being gone because butch has her confident that she needs a man for nothing. No proof, but lots of suspicion and lies. I've heard too much to think otherwise.

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