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Date Posted: 00:21:59 07/16/09 Thu
Author: Tim
Subject: Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??
In reply to: Liz 's message, "Re: Is My wife having an emotional affair with her best girl friend of 25 years??" on 22:57:28 07/15/09 Wed

Thank's Liz. I could not even imagine how much harder it is for a female with kids to deal with this. i just seek more understanding in what takes the conscience out of what we thought to good people. No guilt, no remorse, and my wife don't care who see's her and butch or who knows what's going on. She don't think no one has caught them in the act,so therefore she thinks everyone should just view them as best friends,that's what they call themselves. I wonder why she brought her into the family for a whole year Liz, she had to have known what she was from the start. She acted as if she believed all the lies that butch was filling her head with so she expected me to believe it all to. If you haven't read my first one to max,read it sometime,pretty interesting. It was like the girl wanted to be part of a normal family with kids and she was gone be the daddy,I could see it in her evil eyes. Well at least now we know why homosexuality is an abomination don't we. But it seems as if a switch flips in their head and thet cannot control it. At time of trying to reconcile,butch started giving it more effort like she was competeing for a trophy. I still brag on the person my wife was before butch came along,we never had serious marital issues. Some people have me thinking mid-life, reliving youth, Some say that this could have very easily been a young guy getting to mine with attention to someone that was vulnerable in a long term marriage. I think most gays in general are immature and very self centered because butch is a very cocky and arrogant person that thinks the world revolves around her and what she wants. 28 years old and saving self for marriage????? I'd say she came out a long time ago. Do you mind saying if there was any type of abuse or lack of the father figure in husbands childhood, any kind of instability. Counselor says there had to be some form of hurt or fear to cause this in the female. What is syphillis and do you think I should get checked. It seemed she more into getting new girlfriend out of marriage than a single one with no kids. I hear her last girlfriend left her for a man, so therefore she was stabbed in the back by this ex-girlfriend. I know that I am still rambling after almost 10 months but may be signing divorce soon so maybe i can find a few good friends in the future that are trustworthy. I'll move on one day soon hopefully Liz, love hurts like hell to the straight spouse. People say we shouldn't be so bothered because it is the same sex, but lets see how they would feel if they were in our shoes. I think I actually had moves made on my wife in my own bed in my own house while my 8 year old son was in the bed also with me and other son in house as well. I just sometimes wonder if it is possible for a gay person to manipulate a straight person but people say there has to be something ingrained for it to all be possible. Good luck Liz,you sound very confident and strong, how long has the seperation been for you.

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