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Date Posted: 08:44:17 04/25/16 Mon
Author: Rob (Me too!)
Subject: Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go????
In reply to: Doug 's message, "Who are you and where did the person I know go????" on 07:12:16 04/25/16 Mon

Well written.

This is me also. So much hate and cruelty toward me...it only hurts our kids.

I think they do theae things in the beginning to hurt us.. it makes them feel better about themselves and what they are doing.

Later it becomes second nature to them and they are not selfless anymore..even witb the kids...its all about them and what they want.. i dont know why they cant be nice..i ask her all the time.

I also feel apathy or hollowness inside...i sometimes feel hate but its more just a sadness..gone is the spouse we thought we knew..in its place is a cruel and selfish creature. This puts them before the kids and is very hard to comprehend..

I think all i/we can do is be stoic and stable for the kids. They will never comprehend the evilness of a gay spouse.

I have no answers though...just a me too.

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