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Date Posted: 10:44:40 05/04/16 Wed
Author: Susan (THANKS BYRON: question for you)
Subject: Re: It's everywhere.
In reply to: BryonM 's message, "Re: It's everywhere." on 18:01:05 05/03/16 Tue

What an uplifting message Byron. THANK YOU! I have a question: what sparked this change in you? I'm curious as to when your attitude or perspective towards your ex changed. I remember the turning point for me because it was so sudden and unexpected. I was driving home one day when reality just HIT ME. My ex was always gay, I always knew but lived in complete denial, and I recall that even on my wedding day I knew we wouldn't stay together for ever. I was motoring along, feeling sorry for myself yet again, and then I got a case of the giggles. The giggles turned to laughter and then I almost had to pull over I was laughing so hard that tears were streaming down my face. The reality that tortured me for so long suddenly became a wacko type of joy. I was never the same after that. After that moment, I felt no anger towards my ex and still don't. Sure there is still friction, but it's about the present and not rehashing our broken past. Thanks for reminding me of that Byron. Healing is indeed very PAINFUL and scars still remain, but I've learned to leave the past in the past. My ex has nothing to do with my present life.

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