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Date Posted: 03:19:10 05/05/16 Thu
Author: LostGirl
Subject: Any input? My story is sad.

Hey all. My ex boyfriend and I have one little girl together and I have another older girl from a previous relationship. My ex came out as transgender. My oldest daughter is 9 and she disclosed my ex was sexually abusing her, she has high functioning ASD and the detectives have told me that they believe something happened but shes unable to give the full details to them. She seems to disclose details to me, the police and child protection are trying to push me away from having her assessed medically as it's more emotionally traumatic. So no charges are going to be laid, and child protection is not willing to help protect my youngest child who is 3. My oldest daughter has told me that she thinks sex happened.. This is difficult for me as a mother. My question is what happens when a child offender loses their victim? Do they move on to the next? What happens mentally when you add female hormone replacement therapy? I'm scared beyond belief. I will be going to family court for this all but he's likely to claim I'm falsely accusing him and transphobic. I am not at all either of these. He will likely be convincing to the courts but I believe my daughter over him. I will likely need to give some access for my 3yr old but honestly I don't feel comfortable. Not my call though it will be on the judge. My issue is there's not enough proof of what happened. Being mentally unstable and going to be taking hormones and sexually abusing my child for 3 years?? That won't change his preference will it? I believe now maybe he's choosing this to protect my 3 year old daughter.. I c can't believe I'm in this position, and the system is broken :(

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