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Date Posted: 00:40:59 05/17/16 Tue
Author: Donna krause (Frustrated)
Subject: Re: Glad to find this place
In reply to: Clara 's message, "Glad to find this place" on 07:51:05 05/15/16 Sun

This is the only spouse group I've found. I hope to get some dialog with other straight spouses.
I am 70 and was married for 42 years.until the last few years I had no idea my husband was transgender. After he came out, I agreed to stay married if he respected my heterosexuality.
Then he decided I was mean to not want to share a bed with another woman and became emotionally abusive. He was furious that I sought support when I talked to my close family and counsellors. He had nonconsensual sex with me.
When we separated he lied about the cause. Said I was lying and he left because of my frivolous habits.
I think I'm better but when we have contact it become very bitter and I'm upset again.
I'm disabled and can't work. Now I'm forced to live in financial straights and pay him $600/mo alimony because I made more money than he did. It's been hard.
Now he's in a relationship with a woman who I think is transgender. He remains in the closet public ally.
I just want to not be so angry.

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