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Date Posted: 10:11:31 05/17/16 Tue
Author: Ruby
Subject: Re: Update
In reply to: Vicky 's message, "Re: Update" on 08:36:45 05/17/16 Tue

We are not "Nay Sayers". We are people who have been deeply hurt and who have a huge bucket of combined and disturbingly similar experiences. That experience includes seeing hopeful newbies transition to people fighting for their sanity, children, happiness, and future the moment they don't get aboard with the new program. You may very well have one of the 1%-3% of relationships that survive this kind of a course change. I will not blow smoke up your ass and tell you that it is likely. Your partner has been blowing smoke up your ass for years. You don't need anyone else doing that. Most of the people on this site are among the 97%-99% who were deeply betrayed, deceived, and left behind by a spouse or partner who suddenly decided that they could no longer fake their existence and either busted out and told the truth or went behind our backs to meet their needs and risk our health. There was no compromise unless we made it. There was no honesty unless we nurtured it; there was no, "I am sorry, lets make this transition together and make sure the entire family is ok before I explore this side of me."

I wish you the best. I truly do. If you find yourself in the 97%-99% please come back. We have a collective wisdom that we will happily share with you and a collective shoulder on which you may lean.

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