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Date Posted: 01:08:35 05/20/16 Fri
Author: Rob (took me a long time)
Subject: Re: Blaming and shaming
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Re: Blaming and shaming" on 20:57:09 05/19/16 Thu

Yes...a horrible feeling when the person we trusted and confided in tells us lies and deliberately hurts us.

Its like switch went off. If I had to rationalize it I'd say , in my case, my wife cheated..she chose.. and now she
needs to justify she was right and the only way to do that is to lie some more and finds anything she can to blame it on me.

But there is nothing one can do to make their spouse like the same sex.. ie.. if you put a gun to my head I would still not like men. So how can they blame us .. they can only lie and say it was us. My wife even accused me of cheating...she said it with such conviction I had to stop and think..did I cheat? no ? why am I even thinking if I did? because my best friend and confidant said it.. Crazy.. it took me some time to realize how immoral and low she sunk..

Just remember you did nothing wrong. Your not crazy.. You are a good person and deserve so much more.

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