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Date Posted: 22:35:20 05/20/16 Fri
Author: John (They're beyond understanding)
Subject: Re: Quote from Patti
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Quote from Patti" on 19:19:05 05/20/16 Fri

Yeah, its impossible to figure out a GID spouse.

I stayed in hopes mine might change her ways. We had great counseling insurance. She wasn�t motivated to do confession and redemption so long as she thought she was winning.

They do like a comedian pitching word salad back at the Str8 man in a comedy routine � �Game on!� they think.

I (the Str8 spouse) wanted to understand and help my GID vampire spouse mistake. She wanted to maximize her duplicitous end game without psychs, family, kids or me discovering her full deceit.

My repeat attempts to �work things out� caused only temporarily ditching her lover(s) and repeat scuttles back to her closet. An excellent liar, she gas lighted five (5) marriage counselors with 'He didn't catch me. I didn't do it. He's crazy!'

After 36 years, while gayly packing to live her golden years with younger women teachers she was having great sex with, my GIDXW finally put to words her MO -- telling she considered admitting her gay cheating and assuring me she would stop it and be faithful from then on. Then, after we'd patched things she would reassemble her girl posse on the down low. Her sister told her this would be unfair to me. (I miss my sister in law.)

Yeah, its impossible to figure them out.

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Re: Quote from Patti -- Rob (She made me give up), 22:54:44 05/20/16 Fri