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Date Posted: 11:21:59 05/21/16 Sat
Author: Rob (Thanks yes opposite)
Subject: Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT
In reply to: Casseopia 's message, "Re: Sexual abuse as a young boy and TGT" on 04:52:48 05/21/16 Sat

Thanks Cass yes. My situation is the exact opposite of yours..no remorse on her part..she actually filed for the divorce to make that clear..beat me to it cause i would have filed...i was gathering strength.
Your situation sounds harder.for me my now ex has been so cruel and lied so much...there is no way i would t
ake her back..should she suddenly be remorseful if would be a complete mind fuck for me...no i would never take her back. She burned any and all bridges..really scortch and burn..

No i dont know what you should do.. how does one rebuild trust after tgt ...ignoring tgt..even if you can forgive what can your spouse do to gain trust again.. promises were made and vows taken when you got married. My now ex wife was the most important thing the world to me..i kept all my promises and would never hurt her..if our spouses cannot say the same thing about us what doea that make them? What does it make us? What are their promises worth if they broke very fundamental ones? If they broke taboos?

Hugs and prayers for strength for you whatever you decide.

PS..if my wife had a cool name like casseopia could never cheat on her.

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