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Date Posted: 22:57:47 05/24/16 Tue
Author: Still Wondering (giving a date is very civil)
Subject: Re: Getting away from TGT cont...
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: Getting away from TGT cont..." on 22:32:15 05/24/16 Tue

Set a date. One week from today. Or next weekend if she works during the week and might need the weekend to move. That's a great idea...let your lawyer do it! and absolutely invite your family!! You will need someone to keep her on track and moving those boxes besides you! Will she be mean to you in front of your family? If not then they need to be there to help it go smoothly.

You know we're all rooting for you. There's just no reason for her to be there. Let her kick and scream but you're divorced - she has no legal reason to be there. If she thinks otherwise then you very well may need the police. And please make sure to change the locks and alarm code after she leaves. If you don't have an alarm, get one. She sounds terribly unstable and you never know what an unstable person will do when they realize they have lost.

You absolutely have to set a date - not ask her if it works for her, but tell her. That is very civil. You don't have to be rude but just tell her the date and leave it up to her. If she doesn't comply you will have to remove her. I know you don't want to be in the same position 6 months from now. It seems as though she will freeload until you force her out. I'm so so sorry.

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Re: Getting away from TGT cont... -- Abby, 08:52:59 05/25/16 Wed
- Re: Getting away from TGT cont... -- Rob (Stuff), 09:07:07 05/25/16 Wed