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Date Posted: 03:08:32 05/25/16 Wed
Author: lily
Subject: Re: what do I do?
In reply to: rachel 's message, "what do I do?" on 02:36:20 05/25/16 Wed

Hi hon - I know you don't want this to be true but he can't be honest with you - he's not being honest that's who he is, a leopard can't change it's spots.

It's not just whether or not he is gay, it is that he isn't being honest and open with you. Again this isn't good news but it's a story we're all too familiar with here.

The only advice I can think to give is breathe! look after yourself and your children will be alright. Please don't feel unattractive because of the weight gain, it would probably look sexy to him if he were a straight man.

I am so sorry. I know how devastating this is. sending you hugs.

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