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Date Posted: 09:28:05 05/27/16 Fri
Author: Susan
Subject: Re: A familiar pattern
In reply to: Laurence 's message, "Re: A familiar pattern" on 08:46:59 05/27/16 Fri

It took me 4 years to get here.

Disclosure 2012
Hell on Earth (narc, lying & cheating) 2012-2013
Separation, therapy, and self-help books 2014
My slut phase (lots of fun!) mid to late-2014
Met serious guy early 2015
Divorce November 2015
Peace starting February 2016

So it's been about 4 years. It was hell sometimes but I'm strangely HAPPY for the journey. I've learned lot, my ex-husband and I are both in happier relationships, and our kids are free of our conflict. I wanted to stay together with my gay husband but that wouldn't have worked. I get that now. The time really FLEW by and I've learned a lot. I hope that answered your question. Good luck with your journey!

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