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Date Posted: 11:38:18 05/29/16 Sun
Author: Rob (Snooping)
Subject: Re: Feels like I'm dying
In reply to: Josie 's message, "Feels like I'm dying" on 06:22:38 05/29/16 Sun

Being in divorced now and trying to get her out i no longer snoop.

When she stopped coming near me and her behavior was off i started snooping. Wwhen she texted her girlfriend 24x7 i snooped. When she went out suddenly at 10pm at night i snooped.

What i found , like you, was horrible. Its like getting hit by a bus. All the blood drains from your face. The betrayl if my beat friend on the planet caused me to shake.

One day as i snooped. I stopped and ask myself what are you doing? Is this a way to live in a marriage? Is this someone that loves you? It was then instartes looking for a lawyer. And good thing i did cause as people here said ( and indidnt believe them at the time) she had already found a lawyer and was planning to
Divorce. It was only through my knowledge from snooping and bones that when she filed i said you can send it to my lawyer. Look on her smug angry face faultered then.

My.advice..gather strengh. If you can kick him out great. Find a lawyer..taking baby steps each day. If if he were not gay looking for crap on your phone and lying about it and the fact you have to snoop really says it all. The word is trust..its a horrible feeling being lied to and then told your wring or crazy...not what someone that loves you does.

Sorry your here..please know you did nothing wrong and are not crazy. You nees to gather strength for your kid..your kid needs someone to protect her and put her first. Our kids need authentic adult parents that do not lie and cheat.

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Re: Feels like I'm dying -- lily, 13:01:46 05/29/16 Sun