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Date Posted: 07:40:38 06/01/16 Wed
Author: Laurence
Subject: Re: Anniversary
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Re: Anniversary" on 22:19:06 05/31/16 Tue



Hi Sue, your situation sounds similar to mine in many ways. I do feel for kids as they are being used bait. The person I thought I knew is long gone.
But it's also clear that there is not a lot a can do except to try and be a good parent for the kids and move on. Yes it's hard and I get what you are saying. But it will get better ! Try to focus on what you can control. Don't think about your ex and his new life - think about you. What do you want and how to get there ? I do mourn what I had but that is gone and it's a constant struggle to let it go. So don't let him live in your head rent free!

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