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Subject: Re: People who get upset about opposite gender care givers Author: rk [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:46:35 10/13/09 Tue In reply to: Vicki 's message, "People who get upset about opposite gender care givers" on 15:15:12 10/12/09 Mon I see what you're saying, Vicki, and I understand that it differs form actual sex. Now, do you think you're completely hiding your feelings when this event happens? You think the male doctors and male nurses don't notice it? Do you think they see precisely that thin line between what you call the " the frisson of sexual energy" and "that subtle feeling of sexual pleasure" and what they may consider sexual harassment? Yes, women can sexual harass men, too. You think they don't notice all this? Question is, how do they interpret it? How do they react? Call in chaperones? Are you suggesting that most male doctors and male nurses enjoy this experience? Makes them feel good? Let me suggest to you that what's at state for these men and their careers is much more serious than what's at stake for any female doctor nurse. As far as being childish, I think you're being naive if you believe that these opposite gender medical encounters are designed for your subtle sexual fission and pleasure. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: People who get upset about opposite gender care givers Author: Mike12 [Edit] Date Posted: 21:23:47 10/14/09 Wed I knew the second I read this that a certain two initial someone would hop all over this and start denouncing and throwing names about. I do not think it is possible to completely remove sexuality from say, a physical exam. Person A disrobes for Person B, who then starts manipulating Person A's privates. Anyone who says there isn't some physical sensations/interest/curiosity/arousal happening here is clearly deluding themselves. Granted that's not WHY patients are there, but these things are in our minds anyway. But when anyone on these boards admits even the slightest hint of pleasure from this close contact, however unintended, as did Vicki, guys like RK come busting in to break up the party, on some kind of witch hunt. Amusing.