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Date Posted: 17:01:48 10/16/04 Sat
In reply to:
katie
's message, "please help" on 14:25:10 07/25/04 Sun
I'm sorry to hear about the problems you are having.
my family has had lots of problems too. First, my older brother ran away. Then I ran away, but I came back. Then my little sister died. Now, my dad just left my mom.
we all make mistakes in life, and your mom has made a big mistake. she hurt her husband and family. now her husband has trouble forgiving her. this is very understandable.
I suggest that you let both your mom and your dad know how much you love them, and encourage your brother to do the same. maybe a little love and comfort from you and your brother can help heal some of the wounds.
That is all I know how to do. Please PLEASE email me and talk to me at tucker401@mailbolt.com . If you just need someone to talk to, or to scream at, or whatever, don't hesitate to drop a note. Let me know how things go.
> For a while now, my mom and dad havent been the
>same. They are constantly fighting, and dont want to
>be near eachother. Well, about two weeks ago my dad
>came home furious and told me and my brother (who is
>14, Im 13) that he and my mom needed some privacy. The
>next day my mom looked like a zombie, i knew something
>was wrong, and i knew it had something to do with my
>dad and her. I asked her several times but everytime i
>asked her ahbout it, she replied "Me and dad will talk
>to you when you get home"
>
> Finaly, my dad got home and we went outside to the
>deck. My mom told me that she was having an affair and
>that my dad found out about it last night. She was
>having the affiar with a man she she knew since they
>were 11. They have been best friends since then. His
>daughter and I are best friends. She was having the
>affair for 2 years. My mom can't tell my dad she can
>never see the man becuase she loves him....
>
> I have no idea how to deal with this. I mean when
>i look into my moms eyes i want to understand and i
>feel bad for her. But when i see my dads hurt, i feel
>like i want to kill her. My famiyl is ripping aprat.
>We just put ion a pool and a fence a month ago. If my
>mmom and dad get a divorce, we wont be able to afford
>our house and al the hard work from puttin gup the
>fence (my dad almost had a heart attack from all the
>stress of the fence, he was in the hospital for two
>days) and the pool will eb for nothing. I have no clue
>what to do or how to deal with this. It is all so
>confusing....please help
>
>**confused
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