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Date Posted: 09:51:16 12/15/02 Sun
Author: Dave G.
Subject: Re: My wife left me
In reply to: ExGigolo 's message, "My wife left me" on 14:05:36 12/04/02 Wed

This is going around on forums lately .I think a lot of men rather be alone with their computors than spend time with their wives.It's them dammed sex sites I guess.

This was on another forum , it's a wife deciding to leave her husband and she's making it known world wide through the internet . SHOUT IT OUT LADY , SO THE WORLD CAN HEAR IT .
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Thanks for all the responses. There have been some tough questions asked, and I have been trying to think them through. No, there is no question of the marriage being the same as it was, when one partner is the "parent" in the relationship. I believe it all came to a clear understanding when I got him a job at the same company I work with, (different division) and he quit six weeks later saying he just couldn't work for "those people" but expected me to continue to do the same.
Now I feel resentful and used and although I do care for him, I do not feel that I could trust him to take care of me in a time of crisis or need. Especially if I had to depend on him for my income. It is apparent to me that if an able bodied person is clearly aware that the other partner cannot continue the pace and offers no help, it is time to move on.

Just sad though as we were once happy and in love and had the world by the tail...thank God I listened to my Mom and refused to put his name on the deed to MY LAND...guess she knew him better than I did.

Thanks again, - now for the hard part -cleaning up the details and moving on...

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