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Date Posted: 00:00:55 08/19/06 Sat
Author: Greg
Subject: Re: How to come out???
In reply to: Gideon 's message, "How to come out???" on 00:10:57 03/14/03 Fri

Ya know, I kindda have the same problem. I actually told one person about my gayness but thats it. She is a past girlfriend (not going to have any of those anymore) but she's the greatest friend. SHe is really helping me.

My parents and family are really not bad. I don't think it will take them long to ajust to it. It WILL take my brothers a while and my grandma. My grandma is very religious and although we are very close, she would never except that. You should here the things she says about us not going to church and how thats a huge sin.

Now I really don't know what it will be like at school when I tell people. I really can't see my friends talking to me after (most of them). And even if they do, the friendship would never be the same. I can just tell certian things about people. I will make new friends. ANd if you start out honest then they will have a different opinion than you other friends. If you were straight and your friend of ten years came out of the closet you would feel like you couldn't believe someone you new so long is not who you thought. But if you walked you met someone through some girl friends that was gay you would just be more excepting. You would wonder how it compars to being straight.

Your parents may not like it, everything will be different with them, maybe occured, but they will not shun you. Because they love you, they will learn to respect that about you even if they never learn to like it. I now that for me, most people will avoid the situation and won't want to here about my boyfriends. How would your parents like you talking to gay guys on this site?

Personally I'm starting to think I maay be good gay. I'm starting to get more confident and looking back some things of my past makes sence. (like why I kept going to repeted gay porn sites LOL).
THings will get easier. Not that I'm expirienced. THats why I'm here though I want to be experienced and get more confident.
Ask you self --- do you want harsh sex with a sweaty man with a bulging jock strap?

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