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Birdie
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Date Posted: 05:27:57 10/24/03 Fri
In reply to:
dmak2
's message, "Welcome!!" on 13:18:01 08/17/02 Sat
My husband is out of town about 95% of the time. He is a good provider. This is something that I have just gotten use to. What I cannot get use to is his female friends. When I have a problem, when exciting something happens, I just want to call him, but this is in no way returned. There have been several throughout the years. The problem isn't getting better, it's getting worse. Last month he was home for three weeks. It became quite obvious that he was sneaking off to make phone calls. I began to jot down times of these calls, and the situations that went along with them. When his cell phone bill came in, all of the calls were to the same girl. He called a twenty year old 102 times in a month. While I slept, when I went to pick up the kids from school, in other words while I was doing Mom and wife stuff, he was calling her. When I presented this to him he told me that she had a drug problem, that her boyfriend beat her up, that she was suicidal, and that he was her support. That he even had to talk to her parole officer. I called her, I told her what all he had said about her, her reply was "well you should hear what all he says about you" though she would not elaborate any further. I of course told him and her that this was not going to go on any further. He promised that he would never speak to her again. He says he hid it because of my problem with his female friends. He doesn't work with her anymore. I have no choice but to take the excuse that he has given, but I simply don't believe him. I already thought that he was going through some mid-life crisis. He had not bought one stitch of clothing for himself since we have been together, but he was suddenly shopping all the time, a whole new wardrobe, with a whole new style. Expensive colognes, a new fascination with dragons, and then there were the penis enhancement pills, which by the way I dumped. Then to seal the deal obssessive phone calls to someone that he is suppose to support. Wouldn't that mean to be available if she needed it. I looked on the previous phone bill, and she called him as much as he called her, but he did almost all the calling when he was home.
I am thinking seriouly of calling her..... I cannot get past this....
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