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Date Posted: 19:31:58 07/04/01 Wed
Author: 雲妮
Subject: 點解拍拖個幾月就咁平淡

我同男友拍拖個幾月, 開始頭幾日佢都冇乜點理我成日走去玩, 果時我都唔覺得自己係拍緊拖, 我同佢講佢又好似聽完就算, 我覺得冇乜可能幾日就己經咁, 佢太貪玩, 又冇追我果時對我咁好, 我唔係話要佢成日都對我好, 但係都唔好變得咁快丫....
於是我忍唔住同佢講分手, 由於我係第一次拍拖, 我覺得好傷, 不過講完之後反而開心左同輕鬆左, 但佢梗係會求我原諒佢, 我又心軟, 加上仲鍾意佢, 所以同番佢一齊. 佢仲改左好多, 冇成日出去玩好番之後果幾個星期都好開心, 以為短期內應該都唔會有問題, 可惜依家又有另一個問題......
我地之間變得好少話題, 可能大家都放緊暑假又冇野做, 又成日見面. 佢係一個極度怕悶既人, 成日想拍拖開心玩呀咁......但又邊有可能成日都咁開心咁多野玩喎!!!
有時大家都好想見面, 奈何就係唔知去邊所以最終都冇出到黎. 在我自己, 我覺得只要係同鍾意的人一齊, 去邊我根本唔在乎, 如果要開心嘻嘻哈哈, 點解唔同一大班朋友出去玩喎, 我覺得佢根本唔需要女朋友, 或者女朋友對佢黎講只係生活的點綴, 因為佢喜歡多姿多采的生活........ 而我只求定.
可能問題係出黎佢度啦, 我真係唔知可以做咩, 我覺得好消極, 長時間黎睇我同佢似乎唔會維持好耐.
因為呢個問題好難解決, 任問任何一對情侶都會有同樣的問題, 我同佢都討論過. 大家都搵唔到解決方法, 佢只係話可能遲d 會習慣, 但佢覺得即使其他人係咁平淡, 佢都唔想同佢地一樣拍拖睇戲食飯行街. 佢覺得好乏味...
究竟我可以做d 咩令到大家有衝擊呢?
我地之間係咪缺乏左驚喜呢?
點解我地會咁快就出現呢個問題?
其實佢咁諗有冇問題?
如果因為咁樣分開會唔會好傻?因為我覺得佢貪玩同唔定性的性格係好難改, 大家的人生觀同方向都唔同.我需要一個成熟同俾到安全感我的男朋友....

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