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Date Posted: 04:37:20 10/27/01 Sat
Author: 愛神之箭
Subject: 永遠.....完美
In reply to: 夢 's message, "永遠的愛" on 08:12:51 10/26/01 Fri

永遠....甚麼是永遠, 你知道嗎?
男女之間的愛, 要經歷很多不完美, 也許可以達到完美.
你的所謂完美的愛, 不過是你暗自神傷的情意結.
你為什麼不可以出發去愛之前, 先看清楚目標, 衡量形勢.
你當然也可以不顧一切, 但到底, 損害到的是你自己!
愛--其實有很多客觀的因素, 不要死守自己狹窄的主觀思維.
把眼光放遠點, 然後你知道何去何從.
請不要誤會是教訓你, 只是提出與你討論研究.
佛洛姆Fromm 有本書叫"愛的藝術The art of loving", 值得一看,
內裡有部份章節可能不大適合如今這個泛愛的社會, 但有心人都可以從中借鏡, 分析自己所謂對愛的認識.

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