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Date Posted: 07:56:41 11/15/01 Thu
Author: vit
Subject: 天長地久 vs 曾經擁有
In reply to: 夢 's message, "Re: 天長地久 vs 曾經擁有" on 05:14:29 11/14/01 Wed



既然你們誤解了天長地久與曾經擁有, 看來有必要進一步加以解釋:

說“曾經擁有”,當然已成為過去.可是不論時間過去了多少,有些人會選擇一生一世,寄情於那個曾經擁有(甚至未曾擁有)而又過去了的人.此後,無論他去到哪裡,遇到甚麼人,做了甚麼事,他都沒法回頭,至死不渝.天長地久繫情於那個人.

有些人會選擇把“曾經擁有”埋藏心底,加以自勉反省,到有日,當從新找到對象,當全情投入以後.會把過去的甚麼曾經擁有,通通忘掉,偶爾記起,也一笑置之.他愛他眼前的人.他明白:愛情不可以,而且不應該,分了甚麼一個部份給他心底的曾經擁有.

有些人也把曾經擁有緊緊收藏心底,忘不了.而且把存在腦海的過去,都化為美好(世上有一個美好的分手原因嗎?).就算以後他們再愛上甚麼人,都沒法全心全意,因為心底的美好,已下了指標,他們無法正視現實.無法一心全一意愛他們身邊說要去愛的人.可惜他們都還是會去愛,而且也需要被愛. 

天長地久與曾經擁有,要說的當然很多.其中包括很多心理狀態,潛意識,社會經驗,行為與性格,以至於你說的甚麼轟烈,童話與無憾,以後再討論.

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