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Date Posted: 09:39:48 11/20/01 Tue
Author: vit
Subject: 偉大在哪裡?
In reply to: 夢 's message, "Re: 你最偉大" on 07:45:57 11/18/01 Sun

對待愛情, 有些態度最好要預先明白.
不全身投入愛情, 不認真面對愛情, 任憑是誰, 莫旨意有收穫.
不過就算全身投入, 再認真, 都還是有機會望門輕嘆.
得不到, 不必要生要死, 但暗自神傷無妨, 只要保持微笑. 眼淚適宜只流一次, 再有往肚皮湧去. 無需自憐, 但必定要自愛. 可以借酒澆愁, 夜夜笙歌麻醉自我大可不必. 思潮當然起伏, 好的記起, 不好的伏下. 怨天尤人無濟於事, 主觀的狹窄思維永遠似是而非. 千萬莫把心一橫, 因為世事如棋, 柳暗花明又一村. 客觀而又嚴謹的觀察現實, 看錯了對象, 勇敢的承認, 不要一錯到底. 憑藉愛情兩個字玩弄感情, 從而獲得其他利益, 以致滿足一己私慾的人比比皆是. 不要為自己編排藉口, 營造假象. 真的不願放手, 不要虎頭蛇尾. 認真考慮自己的火力, 持久一時三刻, 可免就免. 真的至死不悔, 那麼全力以赴, 打醒精神. 把甚麼犧牲, 偉大的字眼通通忘掉, 因為只有自己心知肚明. 千萬不要以為是苦, 因為不是受難, 更加不是被迫.
得到愛情的人亦要了解, 不要到了手就當是應該.

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月老 : 月下老人之簡稱. 俗稱媒妁曰月下老人. 見於(續幽怪錄) : 唐有老人夜問月取書, 問何書. 回曰: 天下之婚書. 因而有月下老人之名由來.

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