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Date Posted: 04:18:54 04/15/02 Mon
Author: 『浪兒』
Subject: 【失去】

人總是很奇怪
越是得不到的東西就越想得到,如果得不到便會陷入痛苦

得不到的東西,你爭取到了,就會有种成就感,相反的結果就是挫敗,所以會痛苦

這也許就是人性自私性的一面。假如失去了真正想要的、真正喜歡的東西,那痛,便不再是單一
的挫敗后的苦楚了,還有的感覺就是…心酸

也許失去了的東西並不完美,但那是你得不到的,所以你會覺得很珍貴,一旦它真正屬於你的時候,你也許就會再次失去,這次的失去不同,因為你失去的是它在你心里的那份珍貴、那份完美……

這是最可怕的失去,所以有人宁愿失去得不到的東西,也不愿體驗得到後再次失去的那種感覺, 因為他們承受不起這最可怕的失去。他們在逃避

很容易得到的東西,也會很容易的失去,失去的沒有感覺,沒有懷念,正所謂來的快,去的也快

但最后可能發生的也許還是那句:“等到失去的時候才後悔莫及”

唯一的解釋就是:它原本就不屬於你,你和它注定有緣無份,你不是它真正的主人,所以你就可以安心的釋懷了:拿著不屬於自己的東西,心情總不會那麼暢快吧

與失去得不到的東西不同

兩種失去,同樣的結果,不一樣的心情

人終歸還是要追求的,不能因為怕得不到、怕失去而喪失追求,不去冒著面臨失去的危險,你就不會享受到擁有的快樂

你不會失去所有的東西,因為世上真正屬於你的東西一定正在某個角落里等著你,相信吧……

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