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Date Posted: 00:24:01 11/09/05 Wed
Author: vit
Subject: ..........................
In reply to: vit 's message, "一個主題" on 21:39:01 05/27/05 Fri

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過去三個多星期, 上網, 見到這段留言, 都會想起 chz......

他去了哪裡呢?
他興致勃勃遠道而來, 說了很多話...用文字. 寫很多讀書的心事. 他有些見地, 不太認同; 有點感受; 不很感覺; 有部份觀點, 他看出來是很大, 看的人認為是大驚小怪.

就是這樣, 話來啦. 不很客氣. 對一個遠方的朋友.
他為什麼來呢?
他歡天喜地, 慕一個名來. 到啦.. 他...努力的寫...

有一天, 他好像哥倫布發現新大陸, 興奮的寫了幾句...沒有想清楚的話. 他不知道, 那幾句話, 像刺...傷啦看的人的心.

他敗興而回, 想不出為什麼那邊的人, 會如此性急, 話也沒甚麼大不了嘛.
就互相說說也沒甚麼大不了, 不是嗎? 他不很服氣.

他不知道, 這一邊的人, 在馬路上走, 都是打衝鋒的.
因此說話要快, 一不會說二.
看到不同意的話, 會馬上反駁.
會不很客氣, 但是..真的..心裡面是沒事的.
街頭有甚麼事, 都還是有人敢幫. 拿黑星槍的, 就不好啦...

他走得光明正大, 話說清楚. 沒有負了是一個讀書人.
現在, 回想, 讓他這樣走, 是這邊的損失.

每每想到這點, 都會感覺是虧待了一位朋友.

他敢說話, 聽的人不認同, 聽的人應該把不認同的地方,
跟他慢慢說, 說到他認同呀. 過程會麻煩, 但走啦, 有誤會, 也是麻煩呀.

要是這邊說話慢一點, 多點款待遠方朋友之道...
要是他不掉頭而去, 就比較好辦事啦! 是嗎?


.................... 2004-03-05 13:42:01

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