Very Supportive Ex-ana Looking for Partner in Thin to Work Together to Get Majorly Thin Again -- Desperately wishing

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Subject: Very Supportive Ex-ana Looking for Partner in Thin to Work Together to Get Majorly Thin Again

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Amber

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Date Posted: 02:07:10 06/26/05 Sun

Hi, I just found this board and am so pleased that I've found like-minded people. I've been ana most of my life but seem only able to do it and keep it when I'm not involved in a relationship (other people who don't understand or care just ruin thin, don't you think, they get all concerned and over-involved making you go crazy hiding the truth because although you're fine with it they think there's something wrong with you!) I am 5"4 and was 95 pounds (6 stone 11 if you're British) and a size 6 (UK), 2 (US) until I got in my relationship, where I am constantly observed and eat out and do social events and drinking so can't starve and yet am expected to stay the same weight - well, I didn't get to be 95 pounds by eating like that so am now a massively obese 128 pounds (gained over 18 months) I have a boyfriend who wants me to get back to the weight I was (bless him he still loves me but I know it bugs him, nad more importantly it bugs me) but he doesn't want me to get obsessed - well, nothing's working and I need to get focus to get serious and lose my massive bulk - I want my ribs and hip bones back. I'm looking for some friendly sole to work with so we can keep each other on track and get like we deserve to be. I promise to support and give honest pro-ana advice and am hoping for someone to help and who would be willing to help me - someone who understands that sacrifices must be made - I can't do it by myself as my boyfriend makes me lose focus, I have to lie about my aims etc. It was so much easier when I was single. I've done it before and maintained so have strategies that work but I need support so I can be honest to someone about what I'm doing to keep my motivation. Keeping the ana path a complete secret when there are people close to you is a nightmare and just does your head in, its so much heathier to be honest with someone about what you're doing so it stays a focus but not a mad-obsession. I hope that this means something to someone kind who would benefit from the partnership (and make a friend in the process, which is always nice!). I'm 28 years old, but not married / kids etc. and basicly not grown-up yet, so if I sound like someone who you could partner with, I'd love to hear from you. Failing that all support would be appreciated. LOL Amberxxx

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Re: Very Supportive Ex-ana Looking for Partner in Thin to Work Together to Get Majorly Thin Again	hungryhungryhippo	19:37:11 05/30/06 Tue