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>Someone please tell me if I'm overreacting. I lived >with Husband for almost 2 years now. He & I were both >single and unattached for 5 years before we lived >together. A week ago, he planned to take 2 days off >from work for this week. He told his boss but never >told me about it. When I realized he was staying home >yesterday because it was his day off, I got offended >because he never told me about it. I felt that I >wasn't important to him. He said I shouldn't be upset >and that he didn't realize that it was important for >me to know. He had no big plans on his 2 days off >anyway, except sleep and eat. I explained that it >would be nice if I knew where he was and what he's >doing since he's my husband. He accused me of being >very jealous and controlling. I don't think I am >jealous because, even though he's nice, kind, reliable >and I love him, he's not exactly Hercules. I just >felt unimportant to him. Anyway, now he calls me up >everytime he leaves home, to buy groceries, to go to >his mom, to buy gas, etc. It has become very >annoying. Plus, everytime I see him, he says he's >very depressed and he doesn't know why. I'm thinking >he's depressed because he just realized he married a >very controlling wife. But I don't think I'm >controlling, just not important enough. Am I >overreacting? I don't want to be controlling but I >don't want to pretend I'm not hurt by what he did. >Would you get hurt too if your husband did this to you?

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