VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 1 ]


[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 17:24:17 02/14/07 Wed
Author: Missy Flinn
Subject: Re: body image
In reply to: Jessica Roesch 's message, "body image" on 15:05:54 02/13/07 Tue

I agree with Jessica. The class discussion about body image was very interesting. It was intriguing to hear differing points of view of both early and late bloomers. I believe that adolescence has an impact on our self concept and self image. However, I do believe that the context in which we go through adolescence is what has the greatest impact.


>I thought that our class discussion about the impact
>of puberty on the people we are today was an
>interesting one. In particular, the way changes in
>body image that occur during puberty relate to how we
>see ourselves today really hit home for me. While i
>don't think that my experiences from puberty have had
>a substantial impact on who I am now, I do believe
>that we are products of every experience we've ever
>had, and so naturally puberty has played a small part
>in the person i've become. I went through puberty
>somewhat sooner than my peers. I remember playing
>soccer and the coach yelling out to me and a few
>others, "use those hips!" to shield the ball because
>at 13 our hips were bigger than the other girls who
>hadn't reached puberty yet. While I knew that my
>coach wasn't trying to make me feel bad about my body
>image (and being a man, i don't think he realized that
>that phrase is directly translated into "you're a big
>fat cow!"), it did in some ways have an impact on how
>i see myself, even today. I know logically i'm
>usually one of the more petite women in the room, but
>alot of times i still have that feeling of being
>"big", and i know now, after years of self
>psycho-analysis (yes, i'm a psych major), that that
>single experience on that soccer field in some small
>way changed the how i view myself now. As someone who
>works with children, i need to remember my own
>experiences and how adult words get heard by
>adolescents going through the drastic changes of
>puberty.

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]


Post a message:
This forum requires an account to post.
[ Create Account ]
[ Login ]
[ Contact Forum Admin ]


Forum timezone: GMT-8
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.