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Subject: somethign people should all look at


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Date Posted: 22:24:17 11/09/03 Sun

When someone dies everyone is affected whether they know the person or not. Either by previous knowledge of death or maybe by just deep recognition of something or someone so loved. What we should all realise, is that there is a message in everything bad that happens. Whether we like it or not, there is. It may be subtle or very clear, it should be headed as a warning. Cowper died in a car crash and the girls at basketball did not head that warning and they were in horrific accidents. Learning from previous mistakes is the best chance you have, whether you make the mistake or not. I made a mistake, 2 actually. Trying to end my own life. I realise now and i probably will forever how much that affecte the people around me. My Mum and my family and my close friends. I kept my hurt inside me for 3 years until i finally told someone i wanted to die. i kept it inside for so long and that alone was killing me, emotionally. it is so hard to tell someone, and when you do it helps better than you think. it doesn't matter how many tears you cry as long as they flow is all that matters. when i wanted to die i think of those moments as my warning, my message, because now i realise how inconsiderate people can be and how heartless, how unloving. I also have realised that to take notice of those people is the dumbest thing you can do. but most of all i realised that people can be the most loving and caring people on the planet. no matter what you thought of them previously or how they had acted prior to that.

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