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Date Posted: 10:28:09 10/08/03 Wed
Author: robbie overman
Subject: please help me... i need to know what to do

i have a dilemma...

three years ago i lost my nineteen year old daughter to a brain tumor. she spoke with me almost non-stop during the first year, and our communications have slowed down quite a bit, tho i know i can call on her at any time. i want her to go on with her new life, and she wants me to do the same.

i recently found a site which is wonderful. mothers who have lost children post there. it has been a great solace.

i read some posts by a woman named kathie. i felt an immediate connection with her, i thought because we had lost children of the same age. her daughter rachael, was a very gifted author and artist. i was amazed at her work after kathie shared some sites with me. yesterday i was immersed in a site that rachael had set up herself. i had to leave to get ready to go somewhere, so i left the computer and went to the bath. the bath is a place that jessica (my daughter) frequently visits me.

while in the bath, rachael and jessica started both talking at the same time. like they were in the room with me.. jessica encouraging rachael to tell me what she needed... with the message... go on... you can tell my mom anything.. and she'll do anything for me... etc etc

rachael told me that she is trying so hard to be in touch with her mother, but her mother is not picking up... she wants me to tell her mother what she is doing... and to listen for her.. etc etc... she also wants me to deliver this very important message. (kathie is currently matting and framing rachael's pictures at an extreme cost) and rachael said she doesn't wan ther pictures framed and hanging in a row like some bodies in a morgue. she wants her art work to LIVE ... she wants her mother to finish her story, and she wants to work with her mother to do it... she knows that they can complete the story together... and they both wanted me to at least deliver this message to kathie...

gosh, i was reluctant. i have never had anyone but my daughter contact me. i was overwhelmed, and i was worried about how kathie would take this message, as she so much wants to be in touch with rachael, but feels she is not receiving "anything". but like my daughter said i will do anything for her, so i sent the email. i told her about the pictures and the finishing of the story. i wanted to tell her more, but i felt it would be more appropriate in a chat.

kathie won't chat with me now. she wrote me a return email which basically ignored the message. and the whole thing upset her greatly.

that is the last thing i wanted to do. i don't want to do any more.... but these girls are so damn persistent and won't leave me alone, and keep coming up with new ideas for me to try with the mother....

what do i do? i don't consider myself a psychic tho i am sure i have some strong abilities in the area. i have add and i think that it could be largely due to the number of people from the other side who are always trying to be in touch with me... i receive all this like static on a radio... because i intentionally do not tune in...

please email me or write back here as i have bookmarked this site... i need help asap.

thanx, robbie smplysmshing@aol.com

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