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Subject: Gentrification


Author:
Frances
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Date Posted: 19:39:11 08/29/02 Thu

I am a New Yorker and I've seen a gentrified Williamsburg, which used to be an industrial dump. I've also seen Harlem come around and the Lower East Side which used to be scary even to someone like myself (I am Hispanic). Although you might think I have it easier, this is not the case. I don't fit the stereotype, I am not from the ghetto and I do not enjoy it. I am tough though. But this issue concerns me deeply because I do not want to be victimized and I HATE that my neighbors have to walk around worried about being targeted. Yes, you do stick out like sore thumbs but if anything, the people from the neighborhood should embrace this opportunity for a better community, more resources and safety.
Some of you might disagree but I think you should walk around, firm, secure, with a feeling of ownership of your new neighborhood. A sort of "don't fuck with me" attitude. I am not trying to say to fight with one of these morons because we all read the news and know that they might be armed. But realize that you are already strong for making a decision to move to this obvious shit hole, that you are paying more than this place is worth and that you are entitled to walk around and lead a regular, safe existence.
Be friendly with the bodega people and if someone is following you, do not come home--go into a bodega and tell them what's happening. You might be surprised. Or go in and use a cell phone to call someone here for company. Don't give up and don't become a prisoner here--I know it's hard...I've lived in NY too many years and I've had many close calls, but I always follow my gut instinct and I'm not afraid to offend someone by switching streets or changing plans (avoid Dodworth).
I think this experience will make us stronger and we will be able to build meaningful friendships, as a result. Please let me know if there is a meeting coming up--I did not attend the previous one.

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Author:
J Kosinski
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Date Posted: 07:50:49 08/30/02 Fri

thank you. this is not the first bad neighborhood ive lived in. it is important to walk with confidence, and to not allow yourself to be holed up in your apartment. your advice is good, and i support it.


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