| Subject: Re: The fight, struggle, and victory wasn't worth it... |
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Heather
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Date Posted: 16:47:50 11/09/07 Fri
In reply to:
SUSAN
's message, "Re: The fight, struggle, and victory wasn't worth it..." on 13:03:41 11/09/07 Fri
I am so sorry to hear your news about your family. It is okay to cry, it's ok to mourn, and you will pick up the pieces...........one day at a time. Keep praying and use all the support systems you have...remember your kids will need that support also. I have realized that it is best to fake your sorrow to them until they better understand that it will be ok. They will in time. I know that my boys are healthier by knowing that they are no different than any other kids. That helps tremendously....always praise them for being great kids and tell them that you have the best family and you are so happy they are your children. I do that and my kids have changed so much, and so have I.
It's been five months almost 6 months since we seen my ex, although we have been dealing with a case through the state, I will explain that when it is over. Anyhow, lil one is doing so much better although he loves and misses his dad so much, but he just doesn't understand all the harm his dad causes not only him, but me and his brother and lots of people in his life. Lots of abuse and that my son doesn't comprehend. One day he will. One day I will be able to tell him why all of this happened. I don't want him to hate anyone but I do want him to know that I tried my hardest to protect him from his abusive father.
I read about sociopath's and my ex has all the symptoms of that, well most addicts do, but I am thinking that he is one for sure.....cause he has been that way before he even started using meth. Crazy stuff man. But my kids are so important to me, much more than worrying about how some man feels after all he has done and continues to do.
Stay well, safe and remember to love one another with all you have...let those kids know that they are going to be just fine and so r u.
I am here if you need to talk. Obviously I needed to talk huh? Look at my rambling. Thanks for listening.
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