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Subject: Re: I have a good question

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Heather

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Date Posted: 21:05:42 02/13/09 Fri
In reply to: doug 's message, "Re: I have a good question" on 08:47:38 12/05/08 Fri

WOWsers...I shold have come back to read the responses instead of spinning out. Yes this man is selfish and is only thinking of himself....nothing has changed except his location and lack of drugs. He is still selfish and dummy me still continued to open the letters and I just couldn;t believe the things I was reading. I wondered why I would get upset after each letter. I dont love the man any longer, hate him in my own way of the word. can't stand him actually. For some reason I thought I was doing my little boy a favor. I know that I am not. I have changed my whole tune and it is about time. I am truly sick over all of this and will never get better unless I let go completely of the fact that he is my sons dad. He is only a sperm donor and I have been so naive. I tell people the same advice I should be taking. That man makes me ill for reals. I hear it all but still I have continued.

My only thing is, what do I tell my son when he asks about him? I should have done this years ago. My son is now 7. It would have been a lot less painful, but at least he is still young. It's been since June that he has seen him. He will be absolutely fine.
I am going to take your advice and call the prison and return any letters that he sends. It has to finally be done. He cannot use my baby to lean on in his time of need.
Thank you all. I should have come back earlier to read the responses but time has passed and I feel very different about the entire thing. What took me so long? Why do I learn so slow?

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