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Date Posted:07:09:57 01/25/07 Thu
Well I finally did it, I finally got up the nerve to tell my daughter that I suspected drug use and that I was cutting the visitations down to everyother week for an hour. I told her that I wanted to see a clean hair test and that she had to pay for the test. She told me that she couldn't afford to get one so I told her to get a job. Of course she put the guilt trip on me and told me that I just assume things and if I really knew what was going on I would be more understanding. That I never am interested in her life and never come to visit her so how was I suppose to know what is going on. I told her that I noticed how much weight she has lost and she said that I wouldn't know because I haven't seen her for 2 weeks which is not the truth because we had visitation just last week.
Anyways she was all for the drug test until I said that she had to pay for it, then she got all upset and said that she couldn't afford it. I would help her out with the cost but this whole thing has cost us so much and our whole family has made sacrifices to keep our little one safe. One of my daughters is graduating this year and she has had to miss out on things because we could not afford it. I hope I'm not wrong for feeling this way but if she wants to prove me wrong then she is going to have to figure out a way to do it. Our family has went without on a lot of things and it's time that my daughter pay her own way.
I told my daughter I prayed that she could prove me wrong and if she could then I would be more then glad to increase the visits but until she could prove it that visitation was going to be cut because I didn't want little one to be around it. During this whole two years that all of this has been going on I have never confronted her about her drug use. It's like she knew that I knew but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to face it and it was just easier to ignore the fact that my daughter was shooting up meth. Now that I am confronting it she is trying to turn it back on me and accuse me of being uncareing and ununderstanding. She says that she is having panic attacts and that is why she can't work or go to school. Funny thing is she never has panic attacts when she is working and going to school and actully living a decent life.
Sorry I went on for so long but I just had to get this out
I really pray that she can prove me wrong but I just don't see it happening for awhile.
