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Subject: Re: First steps -please advise -Thanks Heather

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Shelly

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Date Posted: 16:04:00 08/04/06 Fri
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: First steps -please advise" on 14:21:29 08/04/06 Fri

Well,I know I am letting go when I got his response to my email about how when he gets clean and will take drug tests we will talk. He wrote back...get this...:
I have no idea what you're talking about. Obviously
you have no intention of allowing me the basic right
as a father to see my daughter.I urge you to rethink your position as I do not want your apparent dislike for me to create a rift between my daughter and I.If you continue this behavior I will have no choice but to ask a third party to mediate and we will all abide by that persons descision.I really would rather we work out the schedule as Ibelieve that direction to be in the best interest of
all involved, particularly my daughter.

I would like to meet at your house Sunday, 8/06/06 at
7pm. We can agree on a schedule at that time.

I just laughed and laughed! He is wacked out!! (He has no idea what I am talking about -and it's my dislike of him that's causing a rift). If it wasn't so sad it really is freaken funny!! I just wrote back "Sorry, the answer is no. Again -when you get help for your crystal meth addiction and are willing to provide drug test results then we will discuss a schedule." No response from him though my daughter and I are going to the movies Sunday night in case he decides to show up and further manipulate us.
He will not get a 3rd party to mediate -and if he does he will be so screwed as I have all kinds of proof of his drug problem -he doesn't know it -but I do!! It's so weird to go from intense fear and care and concern for this man to utter disbelief and anger. It's so much easier to pull away from having any feelings for him once he targets me and I see how truly messed up his mind is right now.
Thanks for the input!!

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Re: First steps -please advise -Thanks Heather	Heather	16:35:06 08/04/06 Fri