Re: Who Do They Think They're Fooling??? -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: Who Do They Think They're Fooling???

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Heather

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Date Posted: 13:41:48 06/13/06 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Who Do They Think They're Fooling???" on 13:18:30 06/13/06 Tue

Let me go in to this more. Why that last part means so much is because lately I have been dealing with guilt of my son not seeing his dad and Bernie's daughter in law called me the other day to invite me up to her house to bring lil' Spencer to her daughters birthday. Obviously she doesn't know what's going on so she says, but the whole deal is she got my number from Spencer, he was going to be there as well and never once did they mention my other son coming along. It was all about 'Spencer' and not my baby Spencer, Big Spencer. He wanted to see his son.
How about walking the walk? Proving that what you say is true. Are you clean? Prove it. I see NO CHANGES. He is still living off Bernie, has paid NO CHILD SUPPORT, and get this, sent me court papers with a receipt I had to sign, saying he wants joint custody but did not file them at the court house. Manipulating Bernie in to thinking he is doing something about this hearing. He is not. He did it all for show for Bernie because Bernie is still handing him everything he needs so that Spencer doesn't have to do for himself. Why should Spencer do anything when he has it made? And can still use whenever he feels like it but has a roof over his head, food in his belly, and NICE CLOTHES so he doesn't look like a user in that aspect. What a nice life. Bernie still babysits him and makes sure he is with him at all times. WOW - Bernie gets what he wants (a handsome sexy man on his side and a clean house, cause he says Spencer pays him by cleaning his house and washing his cars) and Spencer gets everything handed to him from this man. That is pretty sick if you think about it. So at one time I handed him everything as Bernie does, and he lied to me and stayed with me until I said enough is enough. What is it going to take for Bernie to say enough is enough? He is harboring a man that, yes, needs help, but is not helping himself because he is not being allowed to hit rock bottom. If this is what anyone thinks is the right thing to do for an addict, I personally think they are wrong. If this is 'standing behind' them and 'giving them your support' that is a terrible way to do it in my opinion cause little do they know 'the addict is running their lives by manipulation' and the support is in vein.

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