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Subject: Re: what do you think

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Heather

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Date Posted: 22:54:55 06/22/06 Thu
In reply to: SUSAN F 's message, "Re: what do you think" on 20:20:21 06/22/06 Thu

Hula and Susan - Thanks so much. You are exactly right with using the word arrogant. That is him completely. I even told him that I don't trust that he is completely clean because his behaviour tells me different. He says that any apologies or regret or anything of the sort has to come from inside him and that all of that is in the back of his mind. I did cry when we spoke and I told him this, " I just can't believe that you can put us through hell and sit here like life is normal, things are great, and that you deserve everyone to trust you. He shows NO EMOTIONS. None.and thinks that is normal. I seen the manipulation starting again but I didn't let it happen. I don't want that life. I am so happy that I am healthy minded for the most part. I am still reminded here and there of the pain he caused me and my children, but I am not talking about him all the time and find myself not wanting anyone to ask about him or feel sorry for me that I am a single mom. I'm getting there and it feels great. I am doing wonderful, and talking with him on Sunday opened my eyes even more than I thought they were.
No emotions. wow, it makes me feel like I am the crazy one cause I cried about it this past weekend and he sat there with a straight face. Wow
You are right he is being well taken care of. He says he is working some times with his new business he is starting, but he can't give me any money and I told him eventually it will catch up with him. Oh ya, he asked if he was going to have to pay child support and that's what I told him. He acts as if he doesn't even care for his son at all and here I am asking what you think - all the signs point to YES he is still using. My gut told me so and if it comes out in the hair follicle test that he is clean, he is super messed up by the drugs cause he is not the man I knew and is nowhere near what he was when he was clean before. He had emotions and was sorry for everything, etc, etc. Not that I want him to be an emotional wreck but I do feel as if I could forgive him and actually raise our sone together in a friendly manner if he was different, but instead he acts as if he is still using. And the arrogance is really bad, worse than ever.

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