| Subject: Re: where do I GO FROM HERE |
Author:
Shelly
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Date Posted: 18:57:24 07/30/06 Sun
In reply to:
MARIE
's message, "where do I GO FROM HERE" on 17:26:28 07/30/06 Sun
It sounds like your husband has a number of issues with drugs. I am assuming that you are no longer together - good -keep it that way. I know it's hard, but you must move on with your life and not let his problems, addictions, and chaos bring you down any longer. I finally cut all ties with my ex (my daughters father). Although I still worry about him and wonder each night if he is even still alive -after a few weeks I feel more healthy than I have in a year! Each day I let go of the pain, frustration, hurt and anger a little more and each day it gets easier and easier to let it go -for me and for my daughter. The only advise I can give you is to focus on yourself and stop focusing on him. He will continue to do what he is doing until he decides to stop. There is nothing any of us can say or do to make them stop and once you figure that out it becomes so much easier than continued trying. The attempt to rationalize with a man who is using is pointless and only wastes our energy, efforts, and emotions.
Keep checking this site and reading posts -it helps!! It helped me get through a lot in the past few weeks!!
God Bless!
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