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Subject: Re: Question for Heather Author: kelly2 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:35:24 04/19/06 Wed In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Question for Heather" on 15:39:15 04/17/06 Mon Hi Heather sometimes you have to focus on the behavior and not whether they are using or not. If he still is being a jerk and exhibiting all or most of the other types of behavior. What does it matter what the cause is? I had a very good codependent counselor tell me this once. "It is their BEHAVIOR that drives us nuts" I agree with BT in that you may be trying to find a way to connect with the old Spencer again. I did the same thing many times myself. Take care Heather and God bless you and the boy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: Question for Heather Been There 17:50:02 04/19/06 Wed Re: Question for Heather -- Kelly2, 21:25:32 04/19/06 Wed Re: Question for Heather Heather 13:12:04 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Kelly2, 14:21:21 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Heather, 16:05:51 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Heather, 16:07:37 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Kelly2, 19:07:47 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Heather, 10:10:42 04/21/06 Fri Re: Question for Heather -- Heather, 10:12:25 04/21/06 Fri Re: Question for Heather -- Kelly2, 22:57:57 04/20/06 Thu Re: Question for Heather -- Heather, 10:17:47 04/21/06 Fri