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Subject: update on my daughter


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angie
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Date Posted: 06:20:26 03/14/06 Tue
 I posted on this board a few weeks back in concerns of my daughter . A couple people replied even emailed me . Well I literally had to pay 20.00 to get my daughters phone number to reach her which was worth it for my grandaughter to talk to her mother she had not heard from her for 8 months . She came and ate dinner with us . Seemed like she MIGHT be trying to get her act together asked me to cash a 40.00 check from a guy she was living with . I did thought she would NEVER do me wrong in writing .... a few days later I decided I would let her come here do some things and feed her and get her some things for helping me do some spring cleaning up around here .She said she would so she came here I fell for the I desperately need 1 more crack rock 2 times .... give her 50.00 wrong I know but I did not know how to cope and anyone who has talked with me knows I have been recovering from a nervous breakdown as it was .... the 2nd days I said if you are gonna quit quit now you have been clean 12 hrs thats a great start .... She brought a friend here and I had to literally make them get a bath and all they did was lay in the living room , eating , spilling , trashing , cooking , leaving dirty dishes everywhere ..... I hid in my room for 2 days as much as I could ..... She was NOT raised this way . I would complain and beg hewr to cleanm up and please dont ruin my furniture its only 2 months old . She would turn it right back at me complaining , demanding cigs . I would give her money for cigs she would get beer . Finally I had a friend call her friends mother and asked her if she would help her daughter and I would help mine she said yes . I said they have been off drugs 5 days which is great and a good start . I could call her cause I was literally hoarse from screaming matches with the 2 of them .... When I came home from gewtting away and having my friend make this call my daughter met me at the door and her first words were where the F*** have you been you dont need to leave my daughter here ... I was in SHOCK !!! I was gone 2 hrs everyone was sleeping in fact my other daughter 17 and my boyfriend was here and KNEW where I was and what I was doing . She cusses me cause I leave 2 hrs and she avoids her daughter 8 months and christmas and spends all this money on drugs and not a dime on her daughter . So I took a deep breath said your friend is going to her moms today . She said she cant she said . I said listen I spoke with her mom and she wants to help her daughter and me help you . She started cussing me , screaming , literally spitting on me as she screamed . And she said if she leaves I leave .... I said there is the door and you will NEVER ever cussme and scream and spit on me again ..... My grandaughter was crying and begging her mommy to stay here and she chose her friend . which I feel was only an excuse to get back on the streets . After she left I learned the check I cashed for her was returned her and her friend had gotten a 67 yr old mans check book after he picked them up for sex and wrote 3000.00 in checks to theirselfs and forged his name on the checks .... And he is even hooked on crack now after smoking itwith them .... So now Im broke down again cost me money keeping them up for 5 days providing for them . 5 days of pure hell ... grandaughter missed 2 days from school cause of the stress her mother caused her . and now I realise when my daughter moved out she was a good person ... I did my job if she wants to screw it up so be it . And the law has told me repeatedly its cheaper to bury them then put them in jail so if they call me I will tell them bury her and hang up the phone . I have also told my other children and my father if anything happens to me please dont allow her there I seriously feel she would spit in my casket on me and I dont feel I deserve that . And everyone has said they would respect that and keep her away from me . And if I had it to do over I wish so bad I would of left it alone and accepted my daughter was gone along time ago and who this person is I have no clue but the person is selfish , selfcentered and only cares where her next rock comes from . She wont even take a bath and care for herself .... I just felt I needed to vent ....my grandaughter is back to herself now and has even said she dont want to see the person thats took over her mommy .....
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Re: update on my daughterBeen There14:22:28 03/14/06 Tue
Re: update on my daughterSUSAN F15:47:32 03/14/06 Tue
Re: update on my daughterDebbie10:46:12 03/20/06 Mon

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