Re: I didn't let him step over my boundaries..... -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: I didn't let him step over my boundaries.....

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Heather

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Date Posted: 16:35:57 03/19/06 Sun
In reply to: kim 's message, "Re: I didn't let him step over my boundaries....." on 09:21:55 03/19/06 Sun

You go girl. It's hard but at the same time life is easier without all the drama. The only thing is you must make decisions and boundaries and stick to them. As much as we want to believe they are cleaning up when they say they are, it is all in their actions.......we must respect ourselves because they won't.

It hurts to do this. It hurts really bad. But somehow, the pain is not coming out in tears anymore. It is coming out in repecting me and my children more than ever. I do love him and I feel like I always will at this point, but we deserve much much more than we have let 'him' to believe we deserve. So now he will know that we love ourselves and if he wants to be anything to us, its not as simple as a phone call saying this or that.............it's much much more just like we need and deserve.
I know it sounds like rambling, but its all coming from my heart. It's the way I feel.
Thanks everyone for being here for me when I need you. I am here for you all too.
Heather

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