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>I recently received an email concerning sex and I >wanted to post the question and answer here. I was >given permission by the person who asked it to do so. >Here is the question and the answer.... > >Dear Rabbi, Is anal sex permitted between a Jewish >husband and wife? Provided that anal sex is desired by >the wife and that anal sex is not practiced to the >exclusion of vaginal sex. Your thoughts please. Thanks. > >Shalom, >If the wife is willing and there aren't any medical >problems that could result, there is no problem. >Many Rabbis try to use the story of Onan as a platform >to prove that masturbation, anal sex and oral sex are >wrong. And some make the mistake of saying Onan was >masturbating. If you read the story closely, he wasn't >masturbating at all, he was having sex with a woman >and at the last moment pulled out. That story has >nothing to do with sex at all. It has everything in >the world to do with disobedience. Onan was >intentionally trying to break G-d's Holy Law. >Others try to use the story to say these other forms >of sex are outlawed because it was preventing children >from being born. In my opinion, the command to be >fruitful and multiply was a temporary commandment >needed to fill the earth. It isn't needed any longer. >I currently live in India, it's quite clear to me that >the Commandment has been fulfilled lol. >A husband and wife should enjoy each other. Life is >hard and there are few joys in it, we should not try >to cancel out the good things we DO have. As long as >you don't break other commandments in the process, >feel free. >Rabbi Stanley

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