Subject: An Excuse... |
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winiwiski
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Date Posted: 07:35:24 03/03/01 Sat
What is an excuse?
how and when it comes??
What's it used for???
An excuse is different from a reason. Excuse is the ture or untrue statement for the wrong behavior done and asking for forgiveness.
Mostly, our excuse is for protecting ourselves, getting away from hurt or punishment, as we'd done something wrong. It's quite ironical that we've known we had done wrong, but we were not going to make apology or make amendment, we went to create one by one excuses....seems we don't have brave to admit our faults, but we do have brave to make numerous excuses...do you know how serious the results will be??
i can't tell the fortune, but at least, the one who makes excuse is not feeling well, and will no longer be happy before making the things right again since we are hiding things.
hahaha.... m i too serious suddenly?? i m just thinking about why we prefer making an excuse. There are lots of excuse we have made, just spend a few minutes, and you may find we almost make it everyday...
Such as declining an invitation, calling off a phone call etc...or even more!!!hahaha
To me, i m not saying that making an excuse is wrong, just ask yourself why you are going to make it than to face it, count how much you will lose or gain if you make it and go and see whether you can afford the outcomes, no matter it's better or worse --- but it can be anticipated it will be getting worse than better, or say lose than gain.
So, don't spend time on making excuse anymore, be brave to face it... do what your heart tells you so...
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