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Subject: the private-e


Author:
Katy
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Date Posted: 00:45:00 12/07/04 Tue

Ok - I keep meaning to get on here and post some stuff on the other threads but never get to it so I decided to start a new one for all of YOU to ignore.
We were trying to get a family day together recently and it just didn't work out and besides that Mike & family never come to those things anyway (isolationists - what's a few hundred miles drive for a day o' fun), and John, Jonette and a a few of the kids couldn't make it either so as you can tell already we did not have a family day recently. That brings me to my topic - (finally- I can hear you all saying) - which is....OKOK....I wanna talk about family memories. We haven't for some time now and I need a fix (of a sort). I thought I'd get it started and those that desire to may join in. Here goes;

Christmas on Belmont- 1959-60-61? I remember Grandpa Zuvie sitting on the couch showing us his colored money, and I was fascinated probably because Grandpa made it seem so exotic, what did I know about money then? Grandpa and I also walked over to Bessie & Rufus' house and I got a piece of ribbon candy and we walked back. I think John may have gone too. Bessie and Rufus were Grandpa's friends and seemed to live a long way from us but I think now it was maybe half a mile. I walked by their house one day after Kindergarten because some bigger (1st grade?) boys were harrassing me and I kind of got lost but then sort of recognized the house, knocked on the door and Bessie let me in and gave me a snack I think. It was like going in the house on Leave It To Beaver. The lawn was green and neat with no brown dirt showing through, the house clean, incredibly quiet, everything matching, in it's place, and like new. Bessie even had a sewing /TV room, and there was a small bar with barstools I think.

I also remember a Christmas when we went to Uncle Joe and Aunt Emma's in Kansas(probably around '59-'60 as well)and Uncle Phil and Auntie Barb and the kids came too. I was more fascinated by Aunt Emma and her smoking and her fancy ashtray stand than I was Debbie and Mary's new Barbies with all the trimmings. I do remember they had one barbie dress that was long and it was very tight until it got to about the ankle and then had rows of ruffles. I thought it was just ridiculous then-it was murder to get on and off of a Barbie-and I was right, I still think it is a ridiculous dress - but those were also the first Barbies and worth some serious money today. Back to the ashtray stand - It was free standing of silver metal of some kind and had an ashtray or maybe two that had little trap doors to let the ashs out I think. It also had some little silver and glass ashtrays or coasters that went with it. Anyway all of us kids spent the whole time we were there playing with the little trap doors and I don't even remember Aunt Emma ever yelling at us about it. Maybe she griped at our Moms. When we ate dinner we had to sit at the kids table and it seems like there was a lot of griping then but I don't remember what about. Probably Emma trying to make our parents force us to eat sweet potatoes or kumquats or something. Aunt Emma was a nazi about children toeing the line. I remember her fondly now but she was pretty scary to little children.

I could go on and on those aren't even the best memories by any means just the really early ones, and Beth, Joe, and Mike weren't even around yet But it's late considering I have to get up in about 6 hours so somebody else can have a turn and I'll add more later...

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Author:
Beth
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Date Posted: 19:02:39 12/11/04 Sat

Is this supposed to be just Christmas stories? If it is . . .

They were all good Christmases. Heck when you're little even getting an orange in the bottom of your stocking was cool, for some reason. Well ok, if there hadn't been other stuff in there too, that would have sucked, but since it was on the bottom, underneath the candy and all the good stuff, by the time I got to the orange, I was like, "wow, and a special Christmas orange too!" I know Mom was really just trying to fill the stocking with it, not really trying to send the message that oranges could be just as good as candy. And that's good, because I never ate them. I did, however, do the same for my kids when we didn't have a lot of money, because by golly it works!

The year Larry gave us "Lie, Cheat, and Steal" was a great year. That was the best board game ever, except when you got subpoenaed (sp?). We should try to find one and play it again sometime. I think the best years were when we all did something together (besides the eating and present-opening), like play games - or that year a lot of us went to see "What Women Want". That was fun.

Doesn't it seem like it snowed more when we were little? I remember one year when the snow was probably waist high on me and we* all went outside and played in it until we were frozen. At least I was frozen. I was in PAIN I was so cold. But the snow probably wasn't waist high, and of course I was a lot shorter then. Still, it seemed like there was more of it more often back then. I definitely remember having to put bags over my shoes to get to the outhouse through the snow. Oh, the suffering.

(* "we" being me, Mike, Joe . . . I'm not sure who else, but I know Katy was there because she made snow ice cream.)

Going to Grandma and Grandpa Zuvie's was all about these five things for me:
1. Having to have perfect table manners and eating stuff I didn't like.
2. Grandpa calling me "Butch", poking me in the belly button and saying "Is that where the Indian shot ya?" every time. I did NOT like being called Butch.
3. Getting to sit with the frog in the corner. What was it's name?
4. Looking at all the neat decorative stuff, neatly arranged, always in the exact same spot, every year. If I was lucky, Olive (Grandma to me) would turn one of her music boxes on, with the dancing people (?) Dancing lady? Was there more than one? I can't remember now.
5. Bundt cake. And those green Frankoma coffee cups.

They never did give us presents did they? Hmph.

More later, maybe.

I think we all ought to get laser tag guns this year and have a marathon laser-tag tournament. Rachel wants to get a new version of Trivial Pursuit to play (because Mom is the only one who knows the answers to the original version). Any other ideas?

I'd like to hear some stories from some of you other people now, please.

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michael
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Date Posted: 09:21:21 12/22/04 Wed

Christmas stories? I recall getting cards from Grampa with 5 dollars in them but that ended when he remarried and I was sorely disappointed. I recall anticipation Christmas eve that kept me from sleeping until after midnight and had me up at 5 Christmas morning, wanting stuff so bad it hurt and having to wait my turn to open the next present. I also recall with great fondness that big box of See's candy we got in the mail every year (I had that recollection prior to this thread's start). ;)

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